What are the 5 main habits of a narcissist?

NEGI RK Thursday, November 13, 2025

1. They prey on egos for destruction.

Narcissists feel great envy toward people who have healthy self-esteem - who worked hard, have real skills, and derive real joy or validation from something meaningful. When they see someone grounded and emotionally secure, it reminds them of what they lack in themself. So that individual then becomes the target of their attacks for the purpose of ruining their sense of self-worth to help them feel superior to that individual.

2. They externalize their self-loathing.

By attacking others, the narcissist can get some temporary relief from bearing impossible feelings which would be difficult for anyone to endure - jealousy, emptiness, inferiority, and rage. In hurting someone else, the narcissist has a chance to “cast out” bad feelings into their target. They can then feel cleansed from shame they refuse to face in themselves.

3. They focus on the source of your esteem.

It is not enough for them to ruin your day, or take credit for your accomplishments; they want to ruin the very engine that produces your joy or achieves your success - your sense of self, your passion, your motivation. They will work to disconnect you from the very things that bring you to life - your hobbies, your achievements, your relationships, your goals.

4. They feed on the downfall.

Once the narcissist sees your confidence collapse, they derive a sick sense of pleasure. In their mind, your misery is confirmation of their own superiority; victory over someone they really think of as a rival. They do not want love; they want superiority.