Stop explaining yourself to everyone (The harsh truth you don't want to hear)

Stop explaining yourself to everyone (The harsh truth you don't want to hear)

1. You explain too much because you fear losing people. But the right people don't leave when you choose yourself.
2. Most people don't want your explanation. They want control.
3. If your 'no' makes them angry, your 'yes' was being taken for granted.
4. Some people only listen to your explanation so they can twist it later. Protect your details.
5. If someone respects you, they won't demand a reason. If they demand one, they don't respect you.
6. You don't owe explanations for cutting people off who drain, disrespect, or manipulate you.
7. Every time you over-explain, you teach people that your boundaries are negotiable.
8. Protecting your peace will disappoint the wrong people, and that's exactly how you find the right ones.

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