KARMA is definitely Boomerang it will Hit you Very Hard. What is the hardest lesson you've learnt in life?

What is the hardest lesson you've learnt in life?

Posted by: Thinking Boxx Team

December 28th 2021 17:49 PM | IST

• Life won’t get easier. It will fuck you harder everytime everyday and every moment. Hence KARMA is Bitch 🥵👹 
• Karma is definitely boomerang it will hit you very hard.

Never talk about your achievements, Nobody likes a bragger, People get jealous.

Keep your goals, personal life, politics, religion as a secret.

Poor selection of a spouse is the major cause of personal failure. Think 10 times before marriage because one wrong decision and BOOM!

Confidence > Look.

Play dumb sometimes. People tell you a lot of things when they think you are not very smart, gives you an advantage.

90% time party means alcohol, cigarette, hukkah & dance.

Nothing is Free - Everything requires a sacrifice or price of some sort. Be wary of what you wish for, you might just get it.

Blaming and complaining cannot transform a person's life into success and happiness.

Ignorance is more powerful weapon than to shout.

Be a risk taker. If you don't take risks in life, number one, you would never find out how strong you are. Number two, you would never grow.

Love everyone. I don't know but I figured out you can defeat your enemy by good ethics and love.

Most of our sorries and thanks aren't from our heart. It sounds like just a formality. Express your regret or gratitude in better ways, so that people feel that you mean your sorry and thanks from your heart.

You have to share your stress with someone. Believe me you won't be depressed anymore.

Success= Luck + Hard work + Smart work + Challenges + Blessing + Dedication. The perspective of proportion of each of these will decide what type of person you are.

How the people treat you depends on how you treat them.

You won't believe on what I am going to share, if you've ever been curious about who you truly are, then this is something that you NEED to see...

To me, it felt a little bit surreal - almost too accurate to be true, even.

But as I delved deeper into my archetype, I just couldn't help but think how true everything was.

In just a matter of minutes, my heart was captivated. >>> Click Here To Discover Your Archetype

👉If you found this content helpful, please kindly UPVOTE & Share, follow my profile, and leave a quick comment below.

Doesn't matter somebody is your bestfriend, there is higher possibility that they'll backstab you one day.

Doesn't matter how much humanity you do, how much you help people, there’s higher possibility that they'll forget you one day or reply you ,” never asked for help duh".

Doesn't matter how much you love somebody, or you're committed to somebody, there’s higher possibility that they'll leave you one day.

People often think, things remain permanent but they don't. Once you're attached to em' they leave.

Never invest too much in any person, there's higher possibility that they'll f**k you up. The close one's, always keep your eyes open on em'. Closest one's hurts the most.

Investing in life insurance is much better than investing in any person. At least you'll get return even after you're dead. They don't say ,” Never asked for it”.

• Who promised you life would be easy? But trust me, it will definitely be worth it.
• You are your biggest investment. Period.
• Do you still talk to people who were your 3 a.m. partner last year? Think. Just think.
• Who the hell told you to believe in this forever shit?
• Privacy. The more private your life is, the happier you are. Tried and tested.
• Not everyone needs to know about your business.
• Don’t let people believe that you can’t do without them. Even if you can’t, please don’t let them know.
• This gives people the power to use you. In the end, who is to blame? YOU.
• Bad times proves who is yours and who isn’t.
• If someone sticks you during your hard times, they are worth keeping in life.
• Otherwise, I don’t think I need to explain.
• Those who make fun of you today will tell people how they met you if you somehow become successful.
• Money and success changes the whole narrative.
• Hard work is only one of the way to reach your desired goal.
• Ever heard of privileges?
• Your struggles will be acknowledged only when you are sucessful.
• Otherwise, you are just another failure. And it works this way only.
• Don’t judge people when they say they hate their families. Don’t.
• Just because you had a caring and supportive family, doesn’t mean everyone else had.
• And I don’t want any moral policing here.
• Most of the times, its your closed ones leaking your sensitive information. Don’t trust anyone.
• Just don’t.
• The most important day of your life is not the day when you were born or the day you got married or graduated.
• The day you realise your true worth, that you are much more than people’s drama is definitely the most important one.
• Be smart, work smart.
• Let the clickbait do all the work 

Let me tell you Rahman and Nishit's true incident/story 

Story Teller

Nishit:-

Roman and I went to the same Engineering School. He and I were in the same class.

For so many reasons, I envied him. He was richer than me. He had the attention of all the girls. He was smarter. He scored better grades.

He and I never had any personal enmity, but I envied him. Envy begot hatred. I nurtured hatred. I remained a mute hater. Whenever he smiled, it burned me within.

During the second year, he and I happened to work together for the annual day celebrations. During the preparation, there was a misunderstanding between us and I exploited the opportunity.

I stood up, walked toward him and punched him hard in his face. I was a strong man. He did not expect me to hit him. Shocked, he fell to the ground. He did not retaliate. He was trying to get back to normalcy.

He did not read my hatred. He did not feel my air of senseless hostility. He looked at me terrified and puzzled.

During the course of the year, there were a few occasions in which we crossed paths. I made use of every occasion. I did not hit him again, but I kept sending him signs that I hated him.

Gradually, he too started showing signs of resentment toward me. We exchanged stares. We scuffled whenever we got the chance.

During the final year, he and I belonged to different groups to do the project research. We worked on our projects for months together. It was the week of submission and demonstration.

I opened my locker to check my project model. It was tampered with. The day ended. My project was incomplete. I was given an extension.

At this point, the hatred I had toward him turned into a callous rage.

I itched for revenge. He was leaving the campus to go home. I had gathered some of my friends from outside. We thrashed him until he could not move. He passed out.

The issue got escalated instantaneously. The local police got involved. Both families got involved. Influential people got involved.

It ended as a nasty, awkward, and shameful incident for everyone involved.

We both graduated successfully. We went our separate ways.

I kept stalking him.

I kept checking his whereabouts. He went higher in life. He went to Singapore. He got married. A son was born.

I was observing his life closely. He bought a home. He visited the Netherlands once. He bought a Ford Mustang. He was building a great family.

At this point, though my hatred toward him had subsided, I kept stalking him for some reason. I did not hate him anymore. It was just a feeling of mild envy and vague sense of competition—who gets better in life.

Three years ago, he drowned in the sea, while his wife and baby watched from the shore. He was 25.

Pause—

The news reached me —it did not actually reach me— it cleaved my heart into pieces.

When I entered his home for the funeral, his mother stood beside his body. When she saw me, she cupped her mouth, ran toward me, screamed agonizingly, and hugged me. 

She sobbed like a child. I did not console her. I just let her hug me.

“Do you see your classmate? You hit him, remember? Do you want to hit him again, Ben? Go ahead. HIT HIM!! HIT HIM” she yelled at the top of her lungs. She slapped me hard. I was scared she might explode to death.

I kept looking at his motionless body. I looked at his wife and his baby. They stood nearby, crying inconsolably. The wife was trying to console her baby. Life had just begun for them. Death had knocked the wrong door.

Under that grieving roof, I observed a massive change within me. When I saw the old mother grieving her sunshine, the hatred I had for him dug deep into me, ripped my heart out, and flew out of me, with a deafening scream.

When I saw the wife standing helplessly, all the envy I had accumulated murdered my conscience.

Deep inside my heart, I retracted all the hatred I had for him. I realized that the hatred was never a reflection of him but my inner demons.

My heart started beating faster. I did not speak, but within me, I was begging God to send my friend back to life so I could seek forgiveness. Just once.

“Please God,” I shrieked in pain. Guilt was consuming me from inside, like a gnawing worm inside a fruit.

The whole family lamented the shocking departure of a young soul. They stood in utter denial and disbelief.

I left the home, burying my trifling hatred, envy, and hostility along with my friend.

I realized how big a mistake I had been making.

There is absolutely no sense in us harboring hatred toward people. We hate people based on faith, race, status, and other things.

We fail to realize that everyone we hate is a human being, struggling to face his personal demons.

Life is way too swift and unpredictable to hate anyone. I swore not to hate anyone anymore. I will protest anything or anyone that makes me hate others.

Even if it is God, I will wrestle him.

1- A practical person always have an edge over the emotional one in real life. Apply mind before heart.

2- The more you know yourself , the less you will be connected with the outer world.

3- Never mix your personal life with professional ones. I repeat never.

4- Never let your emotions rule your mind. Otherwise either you will be here or your memories will be.

5- Never talk about your achievements , nobody likes a bragger , people get jealous.

6- Keep your goals , personal life , politics , religion , as a secret.

7- Ignorance is more powerful weapon than to shout.

8- Love everyone , I don't know but I figured out you can defeat your enemy by good ethics and love.

9- Never underestimate power of yourself , if you are confident enough then you can achieve anything in life.

10- Blaming to reservation system every time is not the solution. It won't change !! You have to work hard to achieve something in life.

11- Love when you really understand it's value , not when you are alone.

12- You are constantly changing , yeah !! (Constantly changing). Look a year back and you will find it.

13- Explore yourself if you are between 19- 26. The more you explore , the more you learn and forget about the future , it will going to be awesome.

Disclaimer - I am writing something related with multiple sexual partner , I am talking about today's generation. That's it. Don't try to pin point the answers towards me. And plzz don't take this post otherwise.

Thanks for reading !!!!