“What qualities in men attract women the most”?
That quality is competency. Without getting too technical or long winded, a competent man is a very capable man. A competent man has developed a high level of skill, a high level of efficacy, in whatever it is he does for a living.
The status you have attained in your chosen field, the level of success you have attained is in indication of your competency. You’ll find that in building competency, you will, by necessity, acquire and develop a lot of other traits which are also highly attractive to women.
The list is long. You get the idea. (Charles is the character from the video.)
If you have developed a high level of efficacy, of skill, that’s generally an indication of possessing drive and work ethic. You will need those qualities to be able to stay motivated to do the requisite work to develop a high level of skill, a high level of efficacy. Both of those things, drive and work ethic are very admirable. They’re attractive to a woman. Unless you have an inordinate amount of natural talent in your field, you will need drive and work ethic to become successful. Even if you do have an inordinate level of natural talent for what you do, to reach the top, you’ll need a whole lot of drive and a great work ethic!
Here are some 20 qualities that women find most attractive in men.
1. Tall and Handsome?
Women are drawn to tall handsome men who are soft-spoken and shy, just like flies to a fresh carcass or hounds to the eyes of a python. Not all men have these qualities, however, but it helps to answer the question. If you have these qualities, good luck, but what happens to the rest of us?
Well, there are other things you can do to supplement your disadvantages.
2. Be a Respectful Man
The ideal dream man for a woman is a tall, handsome man who knows how to dresses in flashy clothes, impeccable suits, knows how to look after himself and is also self-confident and intelligent. Well, not quite.
Show your intentions from the start because if you do so you become someone out of the friend zone and women do this they have a friendzone in which many men like them but they didnt Express their intentions and thus they be there forever and when they try to Express their feeling she bring them back to the lets-be-good-friend zone
As such no specific quality is must for men to be a men he must be sure about himself and boom he may be uneducated not rich but can get the girl he wants it very real
But above mention technique is
Combined ability of acceptaning failure and being confident (accept rejection may times)
I say that u get to know many girls and try this they may say no you have to accept failure dont get emotionally down
Increase your exposure just just talk anything rubbish but in flirtatious way and be clear in your intention
Some people believe that being friend first and than expressing your feeling later is good way but eventually she going to reject you if that what she had decided (because you are in her friend zone )show your intentions if she reject accept it(I mean dont force her but through your word show her that you want her )
And girls always lies they want something they say something so try to catch this lies you may ask her for dinner and she may say oh I have my work or something (its crap understand she has reject you move on ) she may want you to respect her be with her give your time to her but dear dont do it like fool because if you do so she will tell you that you dont respect your work and blah blah
It's a big turn down finally it's like balancing dont give much of anything (respect her but dont devote your whole time on her dont be always available for her just be there)
And there is nothing more whether you are an introvert, extrovert ,rich ,poor , talented or not you can always start talking to a girls and she will be attracted if you are doing every thing right
The ideal man for a woman is the man who respects a woman first and foremost. Let that sink in your brain because most men don't.
3. Intelligence vs Wealth.
Although women may love a man that has both, they prefer a man who is intelligent and intriguing. Goes without saying, intelligence exudes self-confidence and success—something women are drawn to.
You may be poor but don’t be poor and lack intelligence at the same time. If you don’t have it, read books.
4. Give her Freedom
I’ve seen well-dressed, intelligent men who look wealthy, being rejected by women who are not particularly classy, for a laborer who is broke with no money. Women don’t like a man who they think will not give them freedom and independence.
5. From the Bottom Up
Unlike men who start looking at women from the eyes to the curves, women start looking at men from the bottom up. They perceive that if you have good shoes, then you must be financially stable and know how to look after yourself.
6. Most women love humor.
To a woman, a man without humor is like a dry well. Most young girls still find me attractive because of my humor even though I'm now well past the age of caring.
7. Does Class Matter?
Despite what people tell you that women find classy, wealthy men attractive, this is not exactly true if the other qualities are missing. Sure, they’ll be attracted to your money but not to you. On the other hand, women are attracted to a strong personality.
8. Testosterone.
Also known as the male hormone. Why do you think a woman married to a millionaire will still sneak out and sleep with the gardener? This male hormone will draw women to you like a magnet from a mile away if you have lots of it.
If you have low testosterone, make sure you eat good foods that are rich in it, and avoid foods that lower testosterone like soy products, alcohol, junk food and sugar.
Instead, eat foods that naturally increase testosterone levels like tuna fish, egg yolks, fortified cereals, beef, beans, etc.
Exercise enhances the production of testosterone.
9. Six-pack-ABS?
Women admire a man with a hard, strong body. Doesn’t necessarily mean you must have a six-pack-abs. However, pot bellies repulse women. It sends a strong signal that you’re lazy and can’t look after yourself let alone look after her sexual desires satisfactorily.
10. Appreciation.
Women like men who appreciate them for who they are. If a woman is beautiful tell her without flinching. If you happen to be the one to tell her this in a month, she’ll think you’re the most wonderful man. Never tell a woman that she’s ugly. She may hate you forever.
11. Be A Predator
Not all women will be attracted to you no matter what. Like a predator, know which woman is good for you and learn how to attack. Don’t approach a woman directly. Start by stalking your target woman and learn her likes and dislikes, without arousing her fear.
Start by talking about the weather or politics, because women already know what you’re after even before you ask them. They can read through your body language like a sieve.
Break the ice by offering to buy her a drink, and from there, tread carefully. If she’s interested in you she’ll give you a hint and open up for more talk.
12. Don’t talk too much.
Don’t talk too much, but when you do, make her laugh. Give her a conversation she’ll never forget. Women love to talk, but they can’t do that when you’re still talking. They think you’re being disrespectful and not listening. Instead, let her do the talking.
She’ll feel like she’s in control and that’s exactly how you want her to feel, because many men don’t give her this opportunity.
13. Play hard to get.
Most men think this is counterintuitive.
I know this is difficult for a man, especially if you’re drawn to a woman you really want. This is reverse psychology and you must play it carefully. Don’t be in a rush to ask a woman out on your first encounter even if her body language gives you the green light.
Be careful because women have different agendas.
14. Exude your Inner Glow
If you know how to respect and look after a woman there’s no limit to what you can do with women. Goes without saying, that women love security, appreciation and love. Whereas men look for outward appearance, women look for the inner glow.
For this reason, a woman can fall in love with a blind man who has all these qualities.
15. Take the initiative.
Women like men who take the initiative. It’s natural. Men who don’t take the initiative show lack of leadership, self-esteem, control, and self-confidence. Lack of self-esteem says many things about a man.
For one, it sends a strong signal that the man will not provide for the woman what she wants. Secondly, it sends a strong signal that the man will not give leadership, guidance and direction.
16. Understand reverse psychology.
Psychologically, women have a different perspective of life. They don’t exactly think the same way and don’t necessarily like what men like. Whereas men use the left brain, women use the right brain. This is something that eludes many men—which explains why most men fail with women.
For example, whereas men may like beef burgers and sports, women may like candy and ice cream. If you can understand women’s psychological weaknesses you’ll be far more advanced in winning women than most men.
17. Be yourself.
Being yourself is the social proof of self-confidence, and self-confidence is a reflection of success and trust, which most women find irresistible. Confidence indicates that you are successful and to be trusted.
When you believe in yourself, women will believe in you as well. Women will trust you with themselves.
18. Control your body language.
This is what I call self-regulation. Male hormones can rage out of control, especially if you’re interested in a particular woman for her looks and sex appeal. Don’t be too obvious to show it.
Controlling yourself is a sign of respect to the woman you want to attract and a signal that you’re not just a hit-and-run type of guy.
19. Be a risk taker.
Women are more intrigued and attracted to men who are not afraid of taking risks, be it work-related (like starting your own business) or extreme sports (bungee jumping or mountain climbing, for example).
Women associate risk-taking with lack of fear, courage and masculinity.
20. Generosity.
Remember, women are also human beings. In fact, women are more compassionate than men. Not surprising therefore, a man who shows the traits of generosity will look more attractive to women over a vain, selfish man.
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