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How does it feel to be 30 and single in India?

How does it feel to be 32 and single in India?

Thank you Samita Mishra 

Jab akelepan me behad sukoon milne lage,

samajh lena jeena seekh liya hai tumne.

32.

Single.

Recently had a mutual break-up.

Shifted to a new place.

I live in a 2 BHK apartment

All alone in the city of Mumbai.

No family except two sisters to call who live far off in Delhi & the US.

Hardly any friends except non-regular biker friends to hand out with.

Mom doesn’t talk much or hardly cares to call & have gotten disconnected.

No relatives remotely to even talk or speak.

Nine months to losing to my dad.

Somedays it’s painful to think about him.

But I make my day lively & happy.

My house is all very clean and organized because I love doing DIY & keeping things organized as it also declutters my brain.

I live with my cat daughter who keeps me happy & entertained all the time.

I play a lot with her. Chase her. Play hide & seek with her. Dance with her. Talk with her a lot. She is talkative too.

It’s quite entertaining.

She just turned 4.

I work from home as my business requires only in-person consultations with Mumbai clients.

Most work is flexible hours as I plan my day one day before so it eases off my schedule.

On weekends I usually go for short rides on my motorbike.

I sleep early by 10:30–11 PM which I started a couple of months ago & wake up by 4:30- 5 AM.

The very first thing I do is give treat to my cat & make my bed. Gives me a hell lot of satisfaction to see my bed made.

I get ready for gym after my coffee and fruit on most days.

I prepare my own easy peasy breakfast.

I have a cook for both my meals, lunch & dinner.

I DIY a lot in my home to make it cozier but I keep limited items because I like space and clutter free home.

I have a mirror that I use to do my dance or shoots or yoga.

As of now building my vision, step by step.

Money flows decent but my vision will take time.

Life is easy.

I am too grateful.

I am truly happy.

I am truly peaceful.

Life is good.

No complaints.

Living alone is truly addictive once you learn the art of pampering yourself & living your life the way it’s supposed to be


P.S: Please don’t send me any pity & sympathy message. I am living my best peaceful life. I can’t even explain in words.

-Smita Mishra

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